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Setting the Stage for Safety: Domestic violence is a severe issue that affects individuals and families across all demographics in Portland and throughout Oregon. When physical safety is compromised, taking immediate legal action is the most critical step a victim can take. The legal system provides multiple avenues for protection, but understanding how to utilize these tools requires precise knowledge of state statutes and local court procedures.
Our Legal Commitment: At BFQ Law, our practice encompasses Domestic Relations and Personal Injury. We routinely assist clients in securing Family Abuse Prevention Act protective orders, filing for divorce, establishing safe child custody arrangements, and pursuing civil compensation against abusers. This guide explores every facet of Oregon family law as it relates to domestic abuse, ensuring you have the factual information necessary to protect yourself and your children.
Table of Contents
- ➤ Understanding Domestic Violence Under Oregon Law
- ➤ The Intersection of Criminal Law and Civil Family Law
- ➤ The Family Abuse Prevention Act (FAPA) Restraining Order
- ➤ Step by Step Guide to Filing a FAPA in Multnomah County
- ➤ Other Types of Protective Orders in Oregon
- ➤ How Domestic Violence Impacts Divorce Proceedings
- ➤ Child Custody, Parenting Time, and Domestic Violence
- ➤ Personal Injury Claims for Domestic Abuse Victims
- ➤ Creating a Safety Plan
- ➤ Gathering Evidence for Court
- ➤ Defending Against False Allegations of Abuse
- ➤ Frequently Asked Questions
- ➤ Conclusion
Understanding Domestic Violence Under Oregon Law
Defining the Scope: Domestic violence is not a single charge or a singular event under Oregon law. Instead, it is a pattern of abusive behaviors used by one individual to assert power and control over an intimate partner or family member. While the general public often associates domestic abuse solely with physical violence, the legal framework recognizes that abuse takes many forms.
Physical Abuse: This includes any use of physical force intended to cause harm. Hitting, slapping, choking, shoving, burning, and using weapons all fall under this category. In the eyes of the law, even an attempt to cause physical injury constitutes abuse.
Sexual Abuse: This involves any nonconsensual sexual contact or behavior. Oregon law explicitly recognizes that forcing someone to engage in sexual relations by using force or threats of force is a severe form of domestic abuse.
Threats and Intimidation: Making someone fear for their physical safety is a critical component of domestic abuse in Oregon. If an abuser causes a victim to feel afraid that they are about to be physically injured, this fear is legally recognized as a form of abuse under state statutes.
The Legal Threshold: To qualify for specific legal protections, the abuse must meet specific statutory definitions. The Oregon Revised Statutes Chapter 107 outlines these parameters clearly. Understanding these definitions is the first step in seeking a legal remedy. Courts in Multnomah County and throughout the state rely on these exact definitions when deciding whether to grant protective orders or alter child custody arrangements.
The Intersection of Criminal Law and Civil Family Law
Two Separate Systems: Victims of abuse often interact with two different legal systems simultaneously. It is highly important to understand the distinction between the criminal justice system and the civil family law system.
The Criminal Track: When police respond to a domestic disturbance and make an arrest, the state initiates criminal proceedings. The District Attorney files charges against the abuser, which may include assault, harassment, or menacing. The primary goal of the criminal track is to punish the offender through jail time, probation, or fines. Victims are witnesses in these cases, not the directing parties.
The Civil Track: Civil family law cases are initiated by the victim. Filing for a restraining order, filing for divorce, or requesting a modification of child custody are all civil actions. In this track, the victim has control over the proceedings. You decide whether to file for a protective order and whether to pursue a divorce.
Crossover Between Systems: Evidence gathered in a criminal case, such as police reports and arrest records, is highly valuable in civil family law proceedings. An abuser's criminal conviction for domestic assault will heavily influence a family court judge's decisions regarding child custody and protective orders. The legal team at BFQ Law operates within the civil track, helping victims secure protective orders, finalize divorces, and seek personal injury compensation for the harm they have suffered.
The Family Abuse Prevention Act (FAPA) Restraining Order
Introduction to FAPA: The Family Abuse Prevention Act, found in Oregon Revised Statutes 107.700 to 107.735, is the primary legal mechanism for domestic violence victims to secure protection. A FAPA restraining order is a civil court order that commands an abuser to stay away from the victim and cease all contact.
Eligibility Requirements for a FAPA Order
Meeting the Criteria: Oregon law sets specific requirements that a petitioner must meet to qualify for a FAPA restraining order. The court will closely examine your relationship with the abuser, the timing of the abuse, and the ongoing danger.
The Relationship Requirement: You must have a specific qualifying relationship with the person you are filing against. According to Oregon law, this includes a current or former spouse, an adult related by blood or marriage, someone you cohabitate with or have cohabitated with in a sexual relationship, a person you have had a sexually intimate relationship with within the two years immediately preceding the filing, or the parent of your child.
The Timing of the Abuse: The abuse must have occurred within the last 180 days prior to filing your petition. However, there is a crucial exception to this rule. When calculating the 180 days, any time the abuser spent incarcerated or living more than 100 miles away from your residence does not count. This tolling provision ensures that abusers cannot simply wait out the clock by fleeing the area or serving a short jail sentence.
The Ongoing Danger Requirement: The court must find that there is an imminent danger of further abuse and that the respondent represents a credible threat to your physical safety. Past abuse alone is not always enough. You must articulate why you are currently in danger.
Protections Provided by a FAPA Restraining Order
Immediate Safety Measures: When a judge signs a FAPA order, it grants powerful legal protections designed to insulate you from the abuser.
No Contact Provisions: The order prohibits the respondent from contacting you in person, by phone, through text messages, via email, or through third parties. They are also barred from coming near your home, workplace, or school.
Residence Exclusion: If you and the abuser share a home, a judge can order the respondent to move out immediately. The order restrains the abuser from entering or attempting to enter the residence.
Emergency Child Custody: A FAPA order can grant you temporary custody of your shared children. It can also establish temporary parenting time rules, which may mandate supervised visitation or suspend parenting time entirely if the children are in danger.
Firearm Surrender: Under Oregon law, a respondent subject to a qualifying FAPA order must surrender all firearms and ammunition to law enforcement or an authorized third party. They are prohibited from purchasing or possessing deadly weapons while the order is in effect.
Pet Protection: A FAPA order can include provisions to protect your pets. The judge can order the respondent to stay away from service animals or pets kept for companionship, preventing the abuser from using animals as a tool for emotional manipulation.
Recent Changes to FAPA Duration
Extended Protection Timeframes: In recent years, the Oregon legislature recognized that one year of protection was often insufficient for victims trying to rebuild their lives. Following the passage of Senate Bill 816 in 2023, the duration of FAPA orders was extended.
The Two Year Rule: For FAPA restraining orders issued or renewed on or after January 1, 2024, the order remains in effect for two years from the date the judge signs it. This provides victims with a longer period of stability and safety.
Renewal Procedures: If you still require protection as the two year expiration date approaches, you can apply to renew the order for an additional two years. A judge can grant a renewal if they find that a person in your situation would reasonably fear further acts of abuse.
Step by Step Guide to Filing a FAPA in Multnomah County
The Local Process: Filing for a protective order in Portland involves navigating the Multnomah County Circuit Court system. The process is designed to be swift, allowing victims to secure temporary protection within 24 hours in most cases.
Step 1: Gathering the Paperwork
Accessing Forms: The State Court Administrator prescribes the content and form of the petition for a FAPA order. You can access these forms through the Oregon Judicial Department website using their interactive online system, or you can obtain paper copies at the Multnomah County Courthouse.
The Gateway Center: For residents of Multnomah County filing against an intimate partner, the Gateway Center for Domestic and Sexual Violence Services is an invaluable resource. Navigators at the Gateway Center can assist you in completing the paperwork over the phone or in person.
Step 2: Submitting the Petition and the Ex Parte Hearing
Filing the Documents: Once your petition is complete, you submit it to the court clerk. There are no filing fees associated with FAPA restraining orders.
Speaking with a Judge: After filing, you will participate in an ex parte hearing. This is a brief hearing where you speak directly to a judge without the abuser present. In Multnomah County, if you submit your paperwork before 12:00 PM noon, you will typically speak to a judge that same afternoon. If you file after 12:01 PM, your hearing will occur on the next business day. Due to modern procedures, many of these initial hearings are conducted by phone.
The Initial Ruling: The judge will review your petition and ask you questions about the abuse and why you fear for your safety. If the judge believes you meet the statutory criteria, they will sign a temporary FAPA restraining order right then and there.
Step 3: Service of Process
Activating the Order: A restraining order is not legally enforceable until the respondent is officially served with a copy of the paperwork. You cannot serve the papers yourself.
Law Enforcement Assistance: Typically, the county sheriff will serve the restraining order on the respondent at no cost to you. You must provide the court with the respondent's physical description and known locations, such as their home or workplace. Once the sheriff serves the papers, the order goes into full effect.
Step 4: The Contested Hearing
The Respondent's Rights: After being served, the respondent has 30 days to request a hearing to contest the restraining order. If they do not request a hearing within 30 days, the order remains in place for the full two year term.
Preparing for Court: If the respondent requests a hearing, the court will schedule a contested hearing. This is a formal trial where both parties appear before a judge. You will need to present evidence, call witnesses, and prove by a preponderance of the evidence that the abuse occurred and that you remain in imminent danger.
Legal Representation: A contested hearing operates under strict rules of evidence. Having a knowledgeable family law attorney from BFQ Law represent you during this hearing is crucial for ensuring your evidence is admitted and your rights are protected.
Other Types of Protective Orders in Oregon
Broadening the Scope of Protection: While FAPA is the most common protective order for domestic violence, Oregon law recognizes that abuse occurs outside of traditional intimate partner relationships. If you do not qualify for a FAPA order, the court offers alternative protective options.
Elderly Persons and Persons with Disabilities Abuse Prevention Act (EPPDAPA)
Protecting Vulnerable Populations: The EPPDAPA restraining order is designed to protect individuals who are 65 years of age or older, as well as individuals living with disabilities.
Scope of Abuse: Unlike FAPA, which heavily emphasizes physical violence, an EPPDAPA order addresses a wider range of abuse. This includes physical abuse, verbal abuse, sexual abuse, financial exploitation, and neglect. The abuse must have occurred within the last 180 days, and there must be an ongoing threat to the elderly or disabled person. A legal guardian can file for this order on behalf of the vulnerable individual.
Sexual Abuse Protective Order (SAPO)
Addressing Sexual Violence: A SAPO is available to victims of unwanted sexual abuse who do not share a qualifying relationship with their abuser. For instance, if the abuser is an acquaintance, a coworker, or a stranger, a FAPA order would not apply, but a SAPO would.
Requirements: The petitioner must show that the sexual abuse occurred within the last 180 days and that they have a reasonable fear for their present safety. A SAPO prohibits the respondent from contacting the victim and can remain in place for up to five years.
Stalking Protective Order (SPO)
Combating Obsessive Behavior: A Stalking Protective Order protects individuals from repeated, unwanted contact that causes alarm or coercion.
The Legal Standard: To obtain an SPO, the petitioner must prove that the respondent engaged in two or more unwanted contacts. These contacts must cause the petitioner to feel reasonably alarmed or coerced. If the stalking involves speech or written messages, the messages must constitute a direct threat that instills a fear of imminent and serious personal violence. Stalking orders do not require a specific relationship between the parties and, once granted, they generally do not expire unless modified by a court.
Extreme Risk Protection Order (ERPO)
Preventing Gun Violence: An ERPO is a highly specific civil order designed to prevent individuals in crisis from accessing deadly weapons. If a person poses a severe risk of hurting themselves or others, law enforcement or a family member can petition the court for an ERPO. This order temporarily forces the individual to surrender their firearms and prevents them from purchasing new weapons.
How Domestic Violence Impacts Divorce Proceedings
Filing for Dissolution: When domestic violence is present in a marriage, filing for divorce becomes a matter of physical and financial survival. Oregon is a no-fault divorce state, meaning you only need to cite irreconcilable differences to dissolve the marriage. You do not need to prove abuse to get a divorce. However, the presence of domestic violence drastically alters how the court handles specific aspects of the dissolution process.
Property and Debt Division
Equitable Distribution: Oregon courts divide marital assets and debts equitably, which means fairly, though not always equally. Generally, the court does not consider fault or misconduct when dividing property. The statute explicitly abolishes the doctrine of fault in property division.
Financial Abuse Exceptions: While physical abuse may not directly shift the percentage of property you receive, domestic violence often goes hand in hand with financial abuse. If your spouse dissipated marital assets, destroyed community property, or accumulated massive debt without your knowledge as a means of control, the court will take this financial misconduct into account. A skilled attorney will highlight these economic disparities to secure a more favorable financial settlement for the victim.
Spousal Support (Alimony)
Support Considerations: When determining spousal support, the court looks at the length of the marriage, the income disparity between the parties, and the standard of living established during the marriage.
The Impact of Abuse on Earning Capacity: Domestic violence frequently impairs a victim's ability to earn a living. Abusers often sabotage their partner's employment by making them late for work, physically injuring them so they cannot attend work, or forbidding them from acquiring education. When calculating spousal support, the court can consider how the abuse negatively impacted the victim's earning capacity and career trajectory.
Exceptions to Mandatory Mediation
Bypassing Alternative Dispute Resolution: In standard divorce and custody cases, Oregon courts typically require parties to attend mediation to resolve their disputes before proceeding to trial. Mediation involves sitting down with a neutral third party to negotiate terms.
Safety First: In cases involving domestic violence, court-mandated mediation is dangerous and highly inappropriate. The power dynamics are fundamentally broken, making fair negotiation impossible. Oregon law provides waivers for mandatory mediation in domestic relations cases where abuse is present. Your legal counsel will file a motion to waive mediation, ensuring you are not forced into a room with your abuser.
Child Custody, Parenting Time, and Domestic Violence
The Paramount Concern: For parents leaving an abusive relationship, nothing is more terrifying than the prospect of sharing child custody with an abuser. Oregon family courts take allegations of domestic violence extremely seriously when making custody determinations.
The Statutory Factors Under ORS 107.137
Best Interests of the Child: When deciding legal custody and physical placement, the court must prioritize the best interests of the child. Oregon law provides a specific list of factors a judge must evaluate under ORS 107.137.
Abuse as a Primary Factor: One of the most heavily weighted factors is the presence of abuse. The court is required to consider whether one parent has committed abuse against the other parent or the child. The law recognizes that a child witnessing domestic violence between parents suffers profound psychological harm, even if the child is never physically struck.
The Rebuttable Presumption Against Joint Custody
Sole vs. Joint Custody: Legal custody refers to the authority to make major decisions regarding a child's health, education, and religious upbringing. Joint custody requires both parents to agree on these decisions.
Statutory Presumptions: In Oregon, the court cannot order joint legal custody unless both parents agree to it. Furthermore, if there is a documented history of domestic violence, there is a strong presumption that joint custody is inappropriate. It is nearly impossible for an abuser to force joint custody on a victim who objects, as the court recognizes that shared decision-making requires a baseline of cooperation and respect that abusers fundamentally lack.
Designing Safety-Focused Parenting Plans
Protecting the Child During Visitation: Even if a victim receives sole legal custody, the abuser will likely seek parenting time. The court's default position is that children benefit from a relationship with both parents, but only if that contact is safe.
Supervised Parenting Time: If the court determines that standard visitation poses a risk to the child's physical or emotional well-being, the judge can order supervised parenting time. This means the abuser can only see the child in the presence of an approved professional supervisor or a trusted third party.
Safe Exchange Protocols: A common tactic for abusers is to use child custody exchanges as an opportunity to harass or intimidate the victim. To prevent this, the court can mandate safe exchange protocols. This may involve exchanging the child at a police station, utilizing a professional exchange center, or requiring the abuser to remain in their vehicle while a third party brings the child outside.
Batterer Intervention Programs: A judge has the authority to require the perpetrator of the abuse to attend and complete a certified intervention program for batterers as a strict condition before any parenting time is granted or expanded.
Personal Injury Claims for Domestic Abuse Victims
Beyond Family Court: While the family court handles protective orders and divorce, victims of domestic violence also have civil remedies available in the realm of personal injury law. Because BFQ Law handles both Domestic Relations and Personal Injury, we are uniquely equipped to explore these dual-track legal strategies.
Suing an Abuser for Civil Damages
Intentional Torts: Domestic violence involves intentional acts of harm. In personal injury law, these actions are categorized as intentional torts. The most common civil claims arising from domestic abuse include civil assault, civil battery, and intentional infliction of emotional distress.
Civil Battery: If an abuser physically strikes you, they have committed civil battery. You have the right to file a personal injury lawsuit against them in civil court.
Intentional Infliction of Emotional Distress (IIED): Abusers utilize extreme and outrageous conduct to terrorize their victims. If this behavior causes severe psychological trauma, you can pursue an IIED claim. This addresses the immense psychological toll of domestic violence, holding the abuser financially accountable for the mental anguish they inflicted.
Types of Compensation Available
Economic Damages: Through a personal injury lawsuit, victims can seek compensation for all out-of-pocket expenses resulting from the abuse. This includes hospital bills, physical therapy costs, ongoing psychiatric counseling, lost wages from missing work, and costs associated with repairing damaged property.
Non-Economic Damages: Victims can also pursue non-economic damages, which compensate for the pain, suffering, emotional distress, and loss of enjoyment of life caused by the abuse.
The Benefit of Civil Litigation: Pursuing a personal injury claim against an abuser not only provides necessary financial resources for the victim to rebuild their life but also places direct financial accountability on the perpetrator. It sends a clear message that abusive actions have severe economic consequences.
Creating a Safety Plan
Preparation is Critical: Leaving an abusive relationship is statistically the most dangerous time for a victim. The abuser recognizes that they are losing control, which often triggers an escalation in violence. Creating a robust safety plan before, during, and after your exit is essential.
Steps for Preparing to Leave
Secure Vital Documents: Quietly gather important documents and keep them in a safe location outside the home, such as a bank safety deposit box or a trusted friend's house. Essential documents include birth certificates, Social Security cards, passports, driver's licenses, health insurance cards, bank statements, and any court documents.
Financial Independence: Abusers often control the finances to prevent victims from leaving. Begin setting aside money in a hidden, separate bank account. If possible, arrange for your paycheck to be deposited into this secure account immediately prior to your departure.
Identify Safe Havens: Determine exactly where you will go when you leave. This could be a local domestic violence shelter, the home of a highly trusted family member, or a hotel paid for in cash. Ensure the location is unknown to the abuser.
Executing the Exit
Timing the Departure: Plan to leave when the abuser is entirely out of the house, such as when they are at work or attending an event. Never tell an abuser you are leaving in person if you fear physical violence.
Law Enforcement Standby: If you need to retrieve essential personal effects and fear for your safety, you can request a civil standby. Under Oregon law, a judge can order a peace officer to accompany you to the residence to safely remove clothing, toiletries, medications, and records for yourself and your children.
Post-Departure Safety and Technology
Digital Security: Modern abusers frequently use technology to track their victims. After leaving, immediately change the passwords on all your email accounts, banking apps, and social media profiles. Turn off location sharing services on your smartphone.
Device Sweeps: Have your vehicle checked for hidden GPS tracking devices. Consider purchasing a new, inexpensive prepaid cell phone for essential communications, as spyware can be deeply embedded in your current device.
Community Resources: Multnomah County offers exceptional support for survivors. The Call to Safety crisis line (503-235-5333) operates 24 hours a day, providing emergency assistance and safety planning guidance. Additionally, the Gateway Center in Portland is a centralized hub offering legal advocacy, counseling, and housing assistance for domestic violence survivors.
Gathering Evidence for Court
Building a Strong Case: Whether you are fighting for a FAPA restraining order, seeking sole custody of your children, or pursuing a personal injury lawsuit, your case relies heavily on the quality of your evidence. Domestic violence often occurs behind closed doors, making evidence gathering a critical, yet delicate, task.
Types of Admissible Evidence
Medical Records: If you seek medical treatment for injuries caused by abuse, instruct your healthcare providers to document exactly how the injuries occurred in your medical charts. These records serve as powerful, objective proof of physical abuse.
Law Enforcement Reports: Any time you call 911, the police generate a report. Even if the abuser is not arrested, the record of the call and the responding officer's observations are vital pieces of evidence. Obtain copies of all police reports associated with your residence.
Photographic Evidence: Take clear, well-lit photographs of any visible injuries, including bruises, scratches, and swelling. Additionally, photograph any property damage caused by the abuser, such as smashed electronics or holes punched in walls. Ensure the date and time stamps are active on your camera.
Digital Communications: Abusers often leave a trail of evidence in the digital realm. Save all threatening or manipulative text messages, voicemails, emails, and direct messages on social media. Take screenshots of these communications and back them up to a secure cloud storage account. Do not delete these messages, no matter how disturbing they are.
Witness Testimony: While the abuse itself may occur in private, others often witness the aftermath. Neighbors who heard screaming, coworkers who noticed bruises, or teachers who observed changes in your child's behavior can provide compelling witness testimony.
Safe Evidence Storage
Avoiding Detection: Gathering evidence can provoke an abuser if they discover your intentions. Store digital evidence in a secure online account that the abuser does not know exists. Keep physical evidence, such as torn clothing or printed photographs, at a trusted friend's house or a secure location outside the home.
Defending Against False Allegations of Abuse
The Other Side of the Coin: The family court system relies heavily on the honesty of petitioners. Unfortunately, there are instances where individuals weaponize the FAPA restraining order process during highly contentious divorce or custody battles to gain a tactical advantage.
The Impact of False Claims: Being falsely accused of domestic violence carries devastating consequences. A temporary ex parte FAPA order can immediately strip you of your right to see your children, force you out of your home, and permanently damage your reputation.
The Contested Hearing Defense: If you are served with a FAPA order based on fabricated claims, swift legal action is required. You have 30 days to request a contested hearing. At this hearing, your legal counsel will cross-examine the petitioner, scrutinize their timeline, and introduce evidence to expose the false allegations. Text messages showing amicable communication during the alleged timeframe, geolocation data proving you were not present at the scene, and witness testimony can effectively dismantle a false petition. The legal team at BFQ Law ensures that the truth is brought to light in the courtroom.
Frequently Asked Questions
How long does a FAPA restraining order last in Oregon?
Due to recent legislative changes enacted by Senate Bill 816, FAPA restraining orders issued on or after January 1, 2024, last for two years from the date the judge signs the order. Prior to this change, orders lasted for one year. As the two year expiration date approaches, you can file a petition to renew the order for an additional two year term if you still fear for your physical safety.
Can I get a restraining order if the abuse was strictly emotional or financial?
The Family Abuse Prevention Act (FAPA) primarily requires evidence of physical injury, attempted physical injury, or threats that place you in fear of imminent physical injury. Purely emotional or financial abuse, while deeply damaging, typically does not meet the statutory threshold for a FAPA order unless accompanied by threats of physical harm. However, if the victim is over 65 or living with a disability, they may qualify for an EPPDAPA restraining order, which expressly covers verbal abuse and financial exploitation.
Do I need a lawyer to file for a restraining order in Portland?
You are not legally required to have a lawyer to file for a protective order. The process is designed to be accessible to the public, and organizations like the Gateway Center provide free assistance with the initial paperwork. However, if the abuser requests a contested hearing, they will likely hire an attorney to challenge your claims. Having skilled legal representation during a contested hearing is highly recommended to ensure your evidence is properly admitted and your protective order remains in place.
Will domestic violence affect who gets custody of our children?
Yes, domestic violence is a major determining factor in Oregon child custody cases. Under ORS 107.137, judges must consider any history of abuse when determining the best interests of the child. Furthermore, Oregon law establishes a strong rebuttable presumption against awarding joint custody if there is a documented history of domestic violence and one parent objects to sharing custody.
What happens if the abuser violates the restraining order?
If the respondent violates any term of a FAPA restraining order, you should immediately call 911. A violation of a FAPA order is a serious criminal offense, and Oregon law mandates that police arrest the respondent if there is probable cause to believe a violation occurred. The abuser can face severe penalties, including jail time, fines, and being held in contempt of court.
Conclusion
Securing your safety and protecting your children are paramount when facing domestic abuse. The Oregon legal system offers robust tools, from FAPA restraining orders to safety-focused child custody plans, to help you break free from an abusive environment. Understanding the precise definitions of abuse, the timelines for filing, and the difference between civil and criminal proceedings empowers you to take decisive action.
Whether you need to file an emergency protective order, navigate a high-conflict divorce involving domestic violence, or pursue a civil personal injury claim against your abuser, having knowledgeable legal counsel makes a definitive difference.
If you would like to discuss your situation with an attorney, reach out through our contact page. BFQ Oregon serves clients in Portland, Oregon. You can also call (971) 754-7629 or email secretary.OR@BFQLaw.com.
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